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This is the story of our journey: an honest account of our lives after Maureen's diagnosis of dementia following stroke in February 2014.
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Tag Archives: Packing to Go Home
Maureen continues to be uncooperative with the regime in the Konar Suite. She has ‘sent the medical staff to Coventry’ and refused an ECG yesterday. Perhaps, this is part of her strategy to get back home to the Midlands. She … Continue reading
The struggles of the last few months all seemed worthwhile yesterday when our visitors from Occupational Therapy made it clear that they supported our approach to ‘seeking the good life’. They were impressed with our extension and how we have … Continue reading
It’s fortunate that family will be arriving shortly as I could do with a helping hand or two. I’m being outrun this morning with Maureen being as confused as I have ever seen her. She woke at 2.30 singing ‘God … Continue reading
Maureen was complaining this morning that ‘leaded windows make this place seem like a prison’. When I suggested that we could change them she said ‘it was not worth it’. Her comment led me to think what is worth trying … Continue reading
As I I hadn’t E T at my disposal I rang Maureen’s Youngest Son at 10 ‘o’ clock last night and it did the trick. He phoned back and his mum gradually reduced her pleas to be taken home so she … Continue reading
We had a relatively peaceful day yesterday. I pottered in the garden for most of the day, while Maureen busied herself in the house. Our afternoon siesta went well with us both having some shut eye. As we began to … Continue reading
I am really grateful to several good Samaritans who came to my aid yesterday, in my hour of need. As I made my way back to my car inGrimsby I began to feel as and stood restingat the side of the road. … Continue reading
Anosognia and hiraeth two extremely important words in any attempt to understand Maureen’s presentation. They are recent acqusitions to my vocabulary, and would certainly warrant a challenge in any game of scrabble. Anosognosia defines a reluctance to accept a medical diagnosis. Hiraeth explains ‘wanting to go … Continue reading
It had to abandon all my good intentions about how to spend the todayday: Action Man frustrated once again. Maureen was quite adamant how she wanted to spend the day: packing to go home. During the morning she emptied wardrobes, and … Continue reading