Decided to post this at 3 am just to take a break from hostilities and recriminations with Mrs Dementia in full flow!
There is little doubt that I need to review my approach to supporting Maureen as her functional and cognitive capacity continues to decline. To use a motoring analogy I need to change into a lower gear as the hills from dementia get steeper to climb. Relatives and friends also need to review their approach to supporting someone who is really struggling at this moment in time.
Maureen’s awareness of her condition has been heightened by conversations with her Care Coordinator on Monday. Yesterday, she lamented that she was getting worse and seemed very downhearted. During the day she had moments of abject confusion: completely lost in her surroundings along with frequent time-travelling. I didn’t help matters by encouraging a visit to a relative where the conversation flowed at a rate that was beyond her capacity to absorb.
Last night she was reluctant to go to bed and is talking incessantly into the early hours. Maureen tells a sad tale of a life full of disappointment and lack of fulfillment. I have recorded some of her rambling to share with professional staff.
It is fortunate that I have a scheduled meeting with my Admiral Nurse and the manager of the Home Treatment Team this morning. We all clearly need to review our approach to supporting Maureen as dementia marches relentlessly on.