We all gave it our best shot yesterday morning trying to persuade Maureen to go into Ashgrove Care Home. Gary our social worker, Gail our carer along with myself talked the talk but her arguments for staying at home from the day before were repeated. Just as we were about to call for support from the Home Treatment Team Gary suggested that I could just ‘rock up and drop her off’ telling a ‘Love Lie’ that we were just popping into Ashgrove for a cup of coffee.
Gail and I took Maureen for a walk around Cleethorpes Country Park and popped into Ashgrove on the way back. Once we were inside staff were primed to settle Maureen so Gail and I could beat a hasty retreat.
Maureen will stay in Ashgrove initially for a week . I will not visit during that time as I know they will contact me if needed.
My priority during this break is to attempt to sort out my sleep pattern. I have decided to do this by sleeping in my own bed rather than visit Madyhamaka Buddhist Meditation Centre.
Last night it was strange being in the house without Maureen. Music added a feeling of familiarity to my surroundings. When I played the first side of The Sound of Music I could have sworn I heard my ‘Singer Lady’ holding forth. Once I sat down to eat I counted my blessings for the excellent support I had received from professional staff and family members throughout a challenging day. As I stared at the empty place next to me I knew that the means justified the ends: Maureen would be well cared for and I would get the rest I needed.
Just for a change, I have updated my Good Music page on time today. With Remembrance Sunday around the corner there one contender. I will always be grateful to Izzy, one of my many friends from my days on Talking Point, for making me aware of this song.