Dementia: BOGOF with the NHS

I realise I am very fortunate with the level of support I get in my role as a Care Partner for Maureen.  Today is equivalent to a BOGOF with a NHS appointment.  What’s he on about now you might ask?  Well ‘hold your horses’: I’m going to tell.

This morning I have an appointment with the therapist at our Medical Centre.  I see Paul every 6 weeks or so following depressive episodes a few years ago.  I have mentioned on several occasions how Paul has taught me to think my way out of depression.  The BOGOF comes in because Paul initial training was as a Mental Health Nurse and he spent the early part of his professional life work on a dementia ward in a hospital.

Paul has a radical approach to mental health and how to supported a loved one with dementia.  His simple message to Care Partners is: ‘seek to minimise distress’.

Then health risks associated with being a Care Partner are well documented.  I am very fortunate that I have the opportunity to discuss my well-being with someone who understands dementia from a theoretical and practical perspective: BOGOF indeed!


About Remember Me

I am a retired adult educator. My wife had a stroke in February 2014 and now has mixed dementia. Her recovery from stroke has been exceptional apart from 50% loss of peripheral vision and vascular damage. 'Dharma For Dementia' is my approach to being Maureem's Care Partner: it aims to end the suffering of 'Prescribed Disengagement' (Swaffer) .
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